Asbed E. Pashalian, 41, of Frederick, Maryland, was called home to be with the Lord suddenly on June 2, 2026. He was the beloved husband of Sara Pashalian.

 

Born on June 20, 1984, in Washington, DC, he was the son of Enoch and Aleyda Pashalian.

 

Asbed lived life with unmatched passion, generosity, and joy. He never met a stranger and had a remarkable gift for making people feel welcomed, valued, and cared for. Whether helping a friend in need, encouraging a coworker, advocating for an elderly neighbor, or assisting members of the Spanish-speaking community who were being taken advantage of, Asbed was always willing to lend a hand. He was known for his larger-than-life personality, infectious smile, and ability to turn ordinary moments into lasting memories.

 

A talented hockey player throughout his youth and high school years, Asbed carried that same determination and competitive spirit into every aspect of his life. He was deeply devoted to his family and worked tirelessly to provide for them. He proudly helped carry on his father’s flooring business and was equally dedicated to his leadership role at the ALDI Distribution Center. Hard work, loyalty, and perseverance were values he lived by every day.

 

Asbed’s greatest joy was his family. He was a devoted husband to Sara and a loving father whose children were the center of his world. He and Sara shared a deep love, friendship, and partnership that touched everyone around them. Despite the demands of work and raising a large family, he always made time for his wife. Whether planning an unexpected date night, sweeping her away on a spontaneous adventure, surprising her with jewelry or thoughtful gifts, or preparing beautiful charcuterie boards to make sure she was caring for herself, he found countless ways to remind her she was loved. Together they built a life centered on faith, family, laughter, and making memories.

 

Above all else, Asbed was an extraordinary father. He shared an irreplaceable bond with his children and was a devoted and loving dad to Amiyah, Armen, Aleya Grace, and Asbed Jr. (AJ). He also deeply loved his six stepchildren and embraced them as his own. Whether he was tossing giggling toddlers onto bean bags, sneaking them ice cream after dinner, carrying them on his shoulders, teaching them to laugh a little louder, or simply showering them with affection, his children knew they were cherished. His babies eagerly awaited his return home each day, and the love they shared was truly special.

 

Asbed had a passion for music, dancing, and bringing people together. Family gatherings often turned into dance lessons as he taught his daughters and stepdaughters bachata in the living room while sharing his love of Latin music. He embraced every opportunity for adventure, from beach vacations and hiking trips to road trips and new experiences. He especially enjoyed the ocean, good food, and time spent with the people he loved. Ceviche, octopus, oysters, and discovering new places were among his favorite pleasures, but nothing brought him more happiness than sharing those experiences with family and friends.

 

His love extended beyond family and friends to the animals he cherished. He deeply loved his beloved bull terrier, Rocco, who preceded him in death. Most recently, he welcomed two parakeets, Blanca and Azulito, into the family. He treasured his friendships and considered many of his closest friends to be family. Loyal, generous, and endlessly compassionate, Asbed made a lasting impact on everyone fortunate enough to know him.

 

His passing leaves a void that words cannot express. He was called home just days before he and Sara would have celebrated their fourth wedding anniversary on June 9 and only weeks before his forty-second birthday on June 20. His life was cut far too short, leaving no opportunity for final goodbyes and many hearts struggling to understand such a profound loss. Yet those who loved him find comfort in the countless memories he leaves behind and in the love he poured so freely into the lives of others.

 

Though his earthly journey ended far sooner than anyone could have imagined, Asbed leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, generosity, devotion, and faith. He lived fully, loved deeply, and embraced every moment he was given. His memory lives on in every dance, every adventure, every family gathering, every beach sunset, and every life he touched.

 

Surviving besides his wife and parents are his four children, Amiyah, Armen, Aleya Grace, and Asbed Pashalian, Jr.; six stepchildren, Michael Frederick Rudilosso, Mathena Rudilosso, Natalie Frederick , Melody Frederick, William Frederick, and Sofia Rosales; two siblings, Anoosh Pashalian and Yenovk Pashalian; two brothers-in-law, Chris Mills and Marc Lyles; one sister-in-law, Jessy Lyles; niece and nephews, Vladimir, Dominic and Vidaone; cousin, Esteli Chavez; one uncle, Jesus Chavez; along with countless friends whom he loved as family and who loved him in return.

 

A celebration of Asbed’s life will be held  at 11:00 AM on Monday, June 15, 2026 at the Frederick Campus of Church of the Redeemer, 5606 Buckeystown Pike, Frederick, Maryland.

 

“Well done, good and faithful servant.” — Matthew 25:23